Thyroid cancer with distant mets at diagnosis: Looking for support
Hello,
I am 51 years old and last week I went to the ER for a headache after a car accident. The doctor did CT scans head to pelvis and found a 2.8 cm nodule on my thyroid, a 2.5 cm adjacent lymph node, other cervical lymph node involvement, enlarged mesenteric lymph nodes, multiple bilateral pulmonary nodules (largest is 1.6 x 1.5 cm), and a 7 mm hypodensity on my liver. The radiologist report said this is highly suggestive of a metastatic process. I have surgery set up at the Clayman Thyroid Center in Florida on December 20. The doctor there told me not to worry about the pulmonary nodules or liver spot. She hasn’t even seen my scans. I am a nurse and used to do oncology, both peds and adult, and pulmonary nodules definitely worry me. This seems like it is going to be awful. I have no idea what to expect, what my chances of survival are, or anything. I guess I am just looking for advice and support.
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Thank you SO much sharing your story! I really needed to hear that! I would love to keep in touch with you!
I agree! Keep in touch!
carolinanurse. a personal question if i may. did you travel from the carolinas to florida? i have seen some of these dr.'s on the internet, the ones from florida and would love to be able to do that. however, i really do not feel like doing anything. my right side vocal cord is paralyzed. so i also have the papillary cancer. i have only had the ultrasounds and the checking of the vocal cords, one biopsy, the lymph node ultrasound.
my heart goes out to you, you sound strong in your mind, so fight with all your might as i will surely be praying for you.
hi everyone again, got lots of questions. i am wondering about the statistics of older people surviving this thyroid cancer. like the dr. said, you can't go to the internet for answers because its old material, i agree and my sister who hates computers told me the same thing. the way i look at it, information from back then surely has improved by now. i really prefer looking at present material if it is available. how do i find a good thyroid surgeon. i have been assigned a general surgeon who i have heard was great. like it says on the internet, make sure the surgeon had done more than one thyroidectomy. i wish each and everyone on here the best of outcomes of what they have to have done. i am on that rollercoaster too. it is mind boggling for sure. prayers for all.
@carolinanurse, this may not be at the top of your to-do list, but think about asking for a consult with a speech-language pathologist as part of your recovery too. They can help with speech, swallowing and, yes, singing.
@lilyann, might getting a second opinion at Mayo Clinic be an option for you? If yes, you can submit an appointment request here: http://mayocl.in/1mtmR63
Happy New Year everyone!
This is another update. I just got out of the hospital yesterday. I had to have emergency surgery to evacuate a huge hematoma that collected almost a week after my thyroidectomy. I am doing much better now but still have a drain. I had my PET scan while in the hospital. Both of my lungs have metabolically active cancer and in addition my left lung pleura has several malignant lesions. We don’t have pathology back yet, but I did speak to an oncologist who let me know that pleural metastases are a grave event and the cancer will not be curable. If the genetics come back with the RET mutation, there is a clinical trial that may give me a few years. Otherwise I may be looking at a rather short journey. I am feeling blessed to be home tonight with my loving husband. I will fight this with whatever treatment they offer because I have beaten terrible odds before!
I’m so sorry to hear you’re going through so much! Do you know if the lung malignancies are metastatic thyroid cancer or lung cancer? I’m most familiar with thyroid cancer as that is what I have but I know there are new treatments available for both that were not around only a few years ago especially if you have a mutation. I can’t stress how important it is to get a second opinion even if it only confirms what you’ve already been told. At least then you can be comfortable with the treatment decisions that you’ll be making. I’m very lucky to live in north Jersey so I have quick access to Sloan Kettering. I highly recommend going to a similar cancer center if you’re able as they are best equipped for treating cancer and you’ll have access to the latest in treatments and clinical trials. As I mentioned in an earlier post I had my surgery at another hospital in New York City and when I asked the oncologist there if I had a chance of surviving my cancer his answer was “Well everyone dies sometime.” It was a very cold and uncaring response. My experience at Sloan Kettering has provided me hope. It hasn’t been easy but my response to treatment has been remarkable. You said in your post that you’ve beaten the odds before. Anything is possible!
I know how unsettling this must be! My thyroid cancer also had spread, including to my brain. That inital dx was over 30 yrs ago.
As someone with medical experience, I know its easy to jump to the worst case scenario. But remember thyroid ca can be a little different then other cancers. Treatment is different, in most cases, as well as cell response.
Start yourself a list of written questions, including cell type, recommended treatments etc. You will know all the questions to ask. Even with your experience though, writing them down can be helpful . Our emotions get high when it's our bodies we are talking about and that just naturally increases our stress, which reduces our cognitive responses. Take action where you can, to empower you in this process. It can be very dis-empowering at times.
Will you let us know when you find out more?
Praying for you!