After reading some of the posts regarding incontinence after a prostatectomy, I feel like sharing my experiences. I had a prostatectomy combined with the removal of a large bladder diverticula 5 1/2 years ago. I still have a number of diverticula which causes retention. I also had green light laser surgery about 10 years ago. Due to the fact that I was experiencing some control problems when this "adventure" began, I remain incontinent. Since a bladder sling can cause retention, I was told that I was not a candidate for that kind of procedure. Another option was the AUS. Since I am dealing with lots of heart problems, and recently had back surgery, I have opted for no further invasive surgeries. Some of surgeries to correct incontinence come with their own problems. I deal with my incontinence by wearing diapers. I was ashamed and embarrassed at first, but after so many years of tests and procedures I said enough is enough. It was somewhat difficult accepting my need to wear diapers, but it gets easier in time. I'm 75 years old. My wife just passed away suddenly from Creutzfeldt Jakob disease, so I'm getting through life the best I can with the least number of disruptions. Sorry for this rant.