Yikes, looks like scheduled for left mastectomy, (doc said it is more extensive than she thought). and the right breast possibly as well (my preference is to remove both).
As far as preparing, I have found that preparing in every way to be slowed down has been the best way to focus on what I have control over.
1. Put up cheery items around the bed. Any cards, favorite pictures, etc.
2. Have several tops that open in the front~button up or zip, since raising your arms will likely be very uncomfortable at first. I created a place where tops can be hung at a lower level than the standard closet dowel. I am also planning on using lots of hooks. Some stores sell the organizer/hooks that go over a door.
3. I have a table next to my bed that is large enough for drinks, books, tissue, lotions, medications, etc. I am using a rolling drink cart temporarily since it easily moves around on wheels.
Does anyone have more tips for home healing after surgery?
Stay strong out there!