Oh dear! He likes churning up trouble! I feel sorry that he tells all those untrue stories about you and Robin. Everything you both do for him and then he makes you look like the bad guys! That would bother me too, the fact that he keeps blaming you and Robin for spending his money (your money too) and stopping him from driving! That’s just awful, but what to do about it, if anything? Do you go to a counselor you could talk to about this or could you tell his doctor?
I once told our family doctor, right in front of Will, about his anger towards me. I just had to let someone know about this, and having the doctor know gave me the support I needed. Now if I wanted to report this abuse, I had a confidant in my corner. Just having someone we both knew that was aware of his abuse made life much more tolerable for me.
Just a suggestion! So sorry for both you and Robin. Praying for you both.