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The original neurosurgeon is very well-respected and one of the best in KC. He refused to fuse any of the three compressed discs including the one outside the curve because my back will collapse "in the near future" if he does. I went for a second opinion and he said, yes he can fuse the one on the outside.
I didn't understand how both docs had opposite opinions so I went to a third consult. Of course, he said they are are both right. He can fuse the one on the outside, but I will most likely need the "big" operation in the near future. That was two years ago. The thought of going into a hospital for a month w/another month upstairs in rehab makes me sick to my stomach. I do not think I would survive it.
After my last shoulder surgery, I told the home health nurse I don't know what my problem is. I start shaking and crying before going under for any type of surgery. It's embarrassing but I can't help it. She said I have PTSD from all the surgeries.

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So glad that you shared with us!! I can totally understand how you feel about having anxiety and fear or whatever your feelings are about going into surgery. In September of 2015 I went in to have female pelvic floor surgery and the doctor perforated my colon and put me in a stoma bag. It took several years to get over the physical and emotional trauma of that experience. How then can we just walk back into surgery. I was in surgery all day with 3 surgeons trying to fix me. Stick with us I love this group.