Being a mom myself, I know that desire to protect our kids…at any age. But your mom is human too so she will have her vulnerable side and that’s ok! And it might be that stoic side of her that really helps get her through this.
It’s difficult to always look forward, especially in the beginning of a diagnosis…not knowing what’s to come. But she now has the best medical attention that she can get! So hopefully this recharges her sprit her a little and gives her a sense of hope!
And for you, being the caregiver is tough. I’ve been on both ends of that experience… a caregiver and then the receiver when I had my cancer journey. It’s an odd place for a mom to be. We’ve always been the one in the family who can’t take a day off if we’re ill, we keep plowing through. Your mom sounds a lot like me, I was completely healthy, hopping around like the Energizer Bunny. Then, just like that with the snap of the fingers, I was down for the count. After my treatment for my leukemia, I am 3 years out, in full remission with more energy than I’ve had in years! My initial odds weren’t the best but here I am! The goal is to never give up hope!
It’s going to take your mom a little time to accept this change in her life but she will adapt and see that it’s ok, that she can get through this return to a relatively normal life.

You are an excellent caregiver! Having found Dr Gertz…wow, that’s like winning the lottery. I hope your consult is soon…for peace of mind. Let me know, ok? ☺️. Hugs.