I am so sorry you are experiencing that. My family has, too. Hospice is BS. They promote it as you having a lot of quality time with family but they really don’t do anything. They just pop in for a second now and then. I cannot figure out all the people that tell me and leave the family to do all kinds of medical care that they have no training and no experience with. They disappear and leave you feeling totally helpless. I have read that hospice is the most profitable sector of medical care. I cannot figure out the people that tell me, “Hospice is wonderful.” It is a NIGHTMARE but it is real. I am sorry that you, too, are abandoned and struggling. I don’t blame you at all for having a tale of woe. It sounds totally overwhelming and like you have little practical help or support. I fear that this happens to many more people than we know. I do not even know what to suggest. People that are super wealthy could hire helpers but what about regular, average people? I can tell you that I would have felt much happier with some person or people to actually help … more than a listening ear or an hour here or there. There has to be a better way