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Please help me. My world is falling apart.

Pancreatic Cancer | Last Active: Jan 4, 2023 | Replies (22)

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@needhelp123 Of course you and your sister are very frightened. Your mother in the hospital is reason enough to be scared let alone the unknown of whether or not she has cancer.

Is another family member available for you for support? @beachdog is correct that many tests are involved before a diagnosis of pancreatic cancer can be made. Is your mother under the care of a cancer team with expertise in digestive diseases (like the pancreas, liver, etc)? If there is even a hint that this is cancer then I also think your family should seek out another opinion at a National Cancer Center. Many academic medical centers have specialized centers.

Please tell yourself that there is always hope. That's the key word in cancer. There is so much research going on and while some cancers cannot be cured the cancer can be managed with medication and other treatments.

Please let me know if there is another way I can help, will you?

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Thank you for your kind words. Yes, I think we are all just numb now from the shock and crying, but we are holding on to hope and doing a lot of research. We already looked into multiple different clinics and doctors and help, and we are willing to travel across the country for the best treatment we can, and we have already found some promising things as we sadly are currently going to a non cancer type of hospital for biopsy so we can really only take their word for it as they are the closest right now. They are taking their sweet time however so we will definitely not be doing treatment with them.