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Wow! You have a tremendous load, as does your husband. I am so happy to hear that the two of you were able to undertake raising two very challenged children - I have just a little understanding of what you have been through, after watching my brother raise his autistic grandson and continuing to support him into adulthood. I am especially familiar with the lack of executive function. May I ask if you live in a metropolitan area? Now that Covid is beginning to relax its grip, you might be able to find some community support yo relieve your 24/7 burden.
I am sure your kids have received special services in school, does the support staff have any suggestion of resources for you? Also, do you have an animal humane society or rescue in your area that could interest your daughter? Finally, can you qualify for weekly respite care for a few hours so that you can get out of the house alone?
If nothing else, you have found a place with others facing your situation, who can offer a listening ear.
Sue