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@sueinmn

Don't we just gain extended families in our RV parks? My uncle and Dad both chose to have their hospice in their park, surrounded by warm air and friends in the same stage of life, who understood. After my Dad passed peacefully, my Mom was surrounded by her friends and 2 sisters, while my sister and I handled all the details of contacting family, airlines, and the funeral home, clearing away the hospital bed and oxygen, accepting food offerings, etc.
When my dear friend and neighbor here had the same experience a few years ago, she was wrapped in the care of this community, and her kids could see that she should remain here instead of alone out in the country in Nebraska, and she is still here.
Tomorrow, we shall have a delayed celebration of my husband's best friend, who was our park ambassador, and passed away at home in August- my friend made the choice to celebrate here, where they spent the past 8 winters.

I am so happy to hear that you and your wife are able to enjoy the love and support of your "intentional family" in this difficult time. Enjoy your well deserved rest tonight!

You will be in my thoughts.
Sue

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Sue,
Thanks for sharing. Yes, our chosen families can give us much support, especially when blood relations are few in number and are long distances apart. One of our friends stayed the night so I could get some sleep last night. What a gift she gave me!
Now I'm going to the bank and shoe store - the first time I've been out of our park in 2 weeks!
Thanks again. Dee