@becsbuddy, i know. Ideally a small dog would be best for me, especially one that would always be in my lap like Harley. A large dog would die earlier, at least that's what I've heard. I couldn't bear that. I'm so glad you found Poppy. I've always counseled others to jump back in and get another dog, but it seems I cant because of this stipulation with my kids. Intellectually, I understand it, but I'm getting old and I need another dog in my life to help keep me young. :'(