It took me about 3 weeks to get my energy back after the surgery. Twelve days is pretty recent so I imagine you still have some healing time ahead of you. Yes, I imagine you are confused and not even sure what questions to ask your doctor. How about if you start writing down your thoughts. Over time perhaps your thoughts will help you formulate questions. I go to all my appointments with questions written down and I take notes during my appointments.

Ah, yes, menopause. Were you already menopausal before surgery? That's a lot to deal with.

Will you have someone with you at your appointment?