@nikki727, this is a great question to post to the group.

For anyone considering second opinion, here are some related discussions
- How do I get a Second Opinion (cancer)? https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/second-opinion-8/
- What is the proper procedure in obtaining a second opinion? https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/getting-second-opinions/
Blog post
– Advice on Second Opinions https://connect.mayoclinic.org/champions/advice-on-second-opinions/

Let me bring in fellow members like @roch @slapshotmary @mhsosa @mdr3 @mssewest @trivia @mom23boys @elvandi @sandyrob who can help build a set of questions to ask with you. I think there may be several stages of questions, for example:
- What questions do you need to ask when seeking a second opinion, i.e., insurance coverage, test results and documentation gathering?
- What questions should you prepare to ask the oncologist at your second opinion appointment?
- What do you want your oncologist to know about you and your values?