Hi @loribmt, its so nice to hear from you! I am sorry I didn’t reply before - The replies were in my spams.
How is everything with you? 🙂
Thanks a lot for asking. Well, I am still not feeling alright but everything seem stable. I am waiting for the full genome sequencing where we are comparing my sibling and parents blood to see the genetics and rare diseases. Its been 6 months already and no news, its a lot of data and sciences 😀
I recently started to feel dizzy and weak everyday and a lot when I drink alcohol as well - like very tipsy and dizzy after half a drink. I went to the doctor and did an ear test and blood and nothing was changed. I guess I can’t do much…
Regarding EBV, we don’t know the truth (my doctor is not convinced) and whether it could be the case, but I still take monolaurin and it helps.
On the relationship side, unfortunately he broke up a month ago, not for love but because of too much fights. I have an anxious attachment style, and my insecurities would be too much too handle. I would bring often concerns as I would need more validation/reassurance. I have to work on that but I’ve realized that being sick and stressed have impacted so much my self-confidence and ability to trust the relationship. Im very sad but he seems to want to be back at some point but I should cut contact.
I will be traveling for a few weeks to visit my family so that will be great to change my mind. How about you? How is the winter treating you and health?
Thanks a lot for your support and follow up
Xx
Hi @mariabrat it’s great to hear from you! Sorry for the delay. There’s been a flurry of activity the past couple weeks and finally, life has settled down to a slower pace. 😉
Oh golly, I’m sorry to hear you’re still having some issues. Stable is good, but I was hoping you’d be in the clear by now. I really hope the gnome sequencing will at least point you all in the right direction. It’s great you could finally have that done! I know it took a long time to be able to get your parents samples.
I think it will do you a world of good to be back with your family for a bit and a change of scenery! With all that’s been going on with the breakup and not feeling well, this will be some good medicine for you! Nothing like some family bonding and good solid hugs from mom and dad, right?
I’m with you on cutting contact with your ex. He sounds a bit one sided in his relationship in that it’s ‘always what he needs’. That partnership needs to be two-way street instead of a dead end alley. I know you’ll find to someone who will love you and be there for you as a true partner. From your conversations it always felt as though you were the one making all the effort, sacrifices and compromises. Life is so much better when you find partner who works with you, loves you for who you are and wants to share your world. ☺️
Thank you for asking, I’m doing great. My husband and I just drove 1,200 miles to get out of the sub zero weather. So now we’re in the southern US in sunny, warm Florida. Where will you be visiting family?