@emilyw, I want you to know that I have been thinking about you and your cousin. I know from my own experience how stressful the entire evaluation process can be, and I remember that the uncertainties and the difficult medical terms are just part of the process.
When you are rested and recovered from the week with your cousin in Arizona, would you let me know if your cousin will qualify as a transplant candidate? Did you have the opportunity to express your concerns about caregiving?

Emily, please know that I am here for you whenever you have questions or want someone to talk to.