Hmmm. I do not have any children, only two step-children. Their dad has worked to have a relationship with them in spite of difficult times, and we all reap the benefits of his efforts. Is it easy? Nope, not at all. But we try to be respectful. In my birth family, I have four siblings, and we are all far-flung like seeds carried aloft on high winds. We have all taken different paths, and lack in the social skills to keep positive relationships moving forward. But, it's never too late, as they say, and a few inroads were made this past year.

@nannette2022 @nousername There are times that come to us in our lives, when we sit with ourselves and take an honest look at things. We look within and do a "check in" to see how we are handling, or not handling, our day-to-day life. Then expanding out to look at factors affecting us. A relative/partner/friend with health issues. Our own health issues. Physical, mental, emotional. And we build a foundation of how we can address everything to make it be the best for us. In the midst of my health concerns right now, I have reached out to give my family the facts. Then there is my "family of choice" friends, and acquaintances, who I turn to for support. You pick and choose, and find out what will ease your mind and heart. Do you have a group of people you will cultivate their support and relationship with? Reaching out to help others where you can will bring rewards to your heart and mind. I hope you will tell me how you plan to do this.
Ginger