Strategies & Realities - Hearing Loss in Social Settings

Posted by Julie, Volunteer Mentor @julieo4, Dec 17, 2021

It's that time of year when families get together and, in many cases, even with COVID still in the air, friends get together too. Not that hearing loss is 'seasonal' It's for real year round! This morning I attended a brunch sponsored by an organization I belong to. Masks required; except when eating. Masks or not, social settings are challenging for people who don't hear well. I'd love to hear how others with hearing loss are coping. Will you share your thoughts and solutions?

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@scottk

Of course! Taking him to the Packer game on Christmas Day!

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That's a positive one! Have fun! Go Packers! Will watch for you at the game!! 🙂

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@julieo4

Social gatherings are difficult for people with hearing loss. Even family gatherings can be stressful. How do you feel about this? I would love to know more about the coping strategies you use.

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If you use hearing aids, do you use a dehumidifier box to store them in? Hearing aids definitely can be affected by humidity and moisture.

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@pc2018

I have known for 5 or 6 years that my hearing is bad. The frustration is unbelievable. I've seen an audiologist. I have a consonant problems primarily. I am not will to try a hearing aid if they can't get a recommended kind FOR TWO for less than $1200 (that is about $1500 after tax and I don't make enough money to deduct it on my income tax). If the little ones that are cheaper are just sound amplifiers I would consider that but I need some type of comparison of the ones available by someone other than the manufacturer. Also, no bluetooth or technology involved! In the meantime, it would be nice if businesses would teach their employees how to speak into the phone especially when leaving messages ..and no baby talk. I am old, not a two year old.

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It is a shame that hearing aids cost so much. It's also a shame that Medicare doesn't cover them. This is an issue that the consumer organization, The Hearing Loss Assn. of America (HLAA) has been working very hard on. If the people who need hearing aids, who feel they are too costly, would get involved in HLAA, it would help. http://www.hearingloss.org How? Because numbers matter to the decision makers in the legislature. Isn't it time to let those decision makers know that hearing loss affects millions of Americans?

It is very common for a person with hearing loss to blame others for mumbling. In fact, that is one of the most common signs of hearing loss. Yes, some people do not speak up, or don't speak as clearly as they should. Some have accents. Some have speech defects. Now, many are wearing masks that muffle speech, even on the phone. They also make it impossible to speech read if you depend on that skill. Most of us with hearing loss do depend on that whether we realize it or not as we learn to watch for clues to help us understand what is being said.

If you need hearing help, do get tested by a clinical audiologist. Ask for a copy of the test results. Once you have the results of that test in hand, via an audiogram, take it with you to shop for hearing aids if what is offered there is too costly for you. A lot of people in this forum had shared very positive experiences of buying hearing aids at big box retailers like Costco and Sam's Club. They generally offer a longer trial period than you will get from a clinical audiologist. That gives you time to try and get used to hearing with them. If they don't work for you take them back. Nothing lost except the initial cost of the testing.

It's obvious that the technology field of audiology is changing due to different sales approaches and opportunities. It is important though, to understand that a hearing aid can be the best and most expensive model of all, but if it isn't fit properly for an individual's hearing loss it probably will not work well.

There are reasonable options out there if you want to hear better. Do you?

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Thank you for all the suggestions. I did try to get help way back when, unsuccessfully, but I think it might be a good time to try again. I was so disappointed when medicare suggested that they might be able to do something here and it fell through. It looks like it is out of the question now. Medicare has done ok but I don't think they will be getting hearing aids covered (or partially covered) any year in the near future. Thanks for the suggestions.

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@julieo4

If you use hearing aids, do you use a dehumidifier box to store them in? Hearing aids definitely can be affected by humidity and moisture.

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Julie, are hearing aids also affected by super dry conditions where there’s the possibility of static electricity?

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@julieo4

Social gatherings are difficult for people with hearing loss. Even family gatherings can be stressful. How do you feel about this? I would love to know more about the coping strategies you use.

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I've never heard of that being a problem. Does anyone else know that answer to this question?

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@julieo4

Social gatherings are difficult for people with hearing loss. Even family gatherings can be stressful. How do you feel about this? I would love to know more about the coping strategies you use.

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@loribmt and @julieo4

When I was wearing analog aids and living in New York my hair was long…shoulder length. I remember getting static electricity when I removed a woolen hat or my hair swished back and forth against my ears. I would hear a crackling noise that was temporary and sometimes feel a sensation when I touched my hair. It didn’t happen all the time and it had to be really dry air.

Static electricity can occur when two objects are rubbed together . If I remember right it was due to an imbalance of ions. Anyway, 40 something years later and living in Florida and wearing digital aids, it is rare that I have experienced static electricity and can only remember a few times I got a “shock”. It would seem to me that CIs , having more electronics than hearing aids, might be sensitive to static electricity but I know of no one who has ever mentioned it.

I never connected the possibility of interference because nothing ever happened to my aids .
Over thanksgiving my son (who wears aids) had static electricity on his shirt and we were trying to rub dryer sheets over the material. So, I don’t think , especially with how sophisticated aids and CIs are today, that this would be an issue. If it was, we would be hearing more about it.

My thoughts …FL Mary

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@imallears

@loribmt and @julieo4

When I was wearing analog aids and living in New York my hair was long…shoulder length. I remember getting static electricity when I removed a woolen hat or my hair swished back and forth against my ears. I would hear a crackling noise that was temporary and sometimes feel a sensation when I touched my hair. It didn’t happen all the time and it had to be really dry air.

Static electricity can occur when two objects are rubbed together . If I remember right it was due to an imbalance of ions. Anyway, 40 something years later and living in Florida and wearing digital aids, it is rare that I have experienced static electricity and can only remember a few times I got a “shock”. It would seem to me that CIs , having more electronics than hearing aids, might be sensitive to static electricity but I know of no one who has ever mentioned it.

I never connected the possibility of interference because nothing ever happened to my aids .
Over thanksgiving my son (who wears aids) had static electricity on his shirt and we were trying to rub dryer sheets over the material. So, I don’t think , especially with how sophisticated aids and CIs are today, that this would be an issue. If it was, we would be hearing more about it.

My thoughts …FL Mary

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Thanks, Mary. It was just something that occurred to me. When we’re home in Wisconsin during the winter, our air is so dry. We have a built in humidifier which helps. But I still get static electricity interfering with my computerized sewing machines. I have to be cautious and use rubber mats, and other little tricks I’ve found. With the discussion of hearing aids with humidity, it spurred the question about static. ⚡️😵‍💫

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@imallears

@loribmt and @julieo4

When I was wearing analog aids and living in New York my hair was long…shoulder length. I remember getting static electricity when I removed a woolen hat or my hair swished back and forth against my ears. I would hear a crackling noise that was temporary and sometimes feel a sensation when I touched my hair. It didn’t happen all the time and it had to be really dry air.

Static electricity can occur when two objects are rubbed together . If I remember right it was due to an imbalance of ions. Anyway, 40 something years later and living in Florida and wearing digital aids, it is rare that I have experienced static electricity and can only remember a few times I got a “shock”. It would seem to me that CIs , having more electronics than hearing aids, might be sensitive to static electricity but I know of no one who has ever mentioned it.

I never connected the possibility of interference because nothing ever happened to my aids .
Over thanksgiving my son (who wears aids) had static electricity on his shirt and we were trying to rub dryer sheets over the material. So, I don’t think , especially with how sophisticated aids and CIs are today, that this would be an issue. If it was, we would be hearing more about it.

My thoughts …FL Mary

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I agree. if this was an issue, we would hear about it a lot.

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@pc2018

Thank you for all the suggestions. I did try to get help way back when, unsuccessfully, but I think it might be a good time to try again. I was so disappointed when medicare suggested that they might be able to do something here and it fell through. It looks like it is out of the question now. Medicare has done ok but I don't think they will be getting hearing aids covered (or partially covered) any year in the near future. Thanks for the suggestions.

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In early December, the House of Representatives passed legislation that included hearing aids in Medicare. Whether this will be addressed in the Senate remains to be seen. Or if it will be cut out in both houses. Our legislators make decisions based on what they hear from their constituents. It's important to let them hear our voices so they know what matters to us. Have you written to your legislators about this?

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