I have been diagnosed with pudendal nueralgia for 10 years. It is in the vaginal area which like you said no one likes to talk about. I also have fine fiber pheripheral nueropathy. . Pain Drs are now starting to advice I do spinal cord stimulation. I have been going to a pelvic floor therapist for 5 months which has not helped at all. Would like to hear what you have tried. At last found someone with a diagnosis of pudendal neuralgia.