So this may sound strange, (and completely sappy), but this process has been such a tremendous gift to ME. To have a better understanding of yourself, and purpose, identity and being a part of something greater than yourself, that you got to contribute to and know that you belong to something important that happened, is a true gift. To know that you always have these connections and belonging within this amazing group of ‘fighters’ is incredible. Recipients braving so many health challenges and pressing on everyday, other (stubborn) donors who, like me, were told a soft “no” that we’re not direct matches, but press on. It’s all very humbling.