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No one likes to repeat themselves, apparently
Hearing Loss | Last Active: Nov 27, 2023 | Replies (65)Comment receiving replies
As a group, we hard of hearing folks have to understand that our hearing loss affects other people too. The comments on this thread also show that while we are all different, we are also very much the same. When we misunderstand and ask for clarification we are trying to remain in the conversation. When we bluff by nodding and smiling we can get ourselves in big trouble by agreeing to something we totally disagree with. Asking for people to repeat or re phrase often leads to the dreaded "Never mind, it wasn't important' response. That sets us back a pace or two. It's also a put off that makes us feel 'not important'. But, it is a reality with hearing loss, and unless a person has hearing loss themselves, they never completely understand this.
There are ways to help ourselves that only a handful use. I'm thinking of streamers and BlueTooth or direct audio input microphones that we can use in noisy settings. I never leave home without my Mini Mic, a device that can sync with both cochlear implant processors and specific hearing aids. It makes it possible for me to hear when I'm out for dinner, at a party, etc. Is it perfect? No, I still miss some things, but it helps tremendously. That technoology has kept me from becoming reclusive. It has also helped my relationships with family, friends, etc.
Why don't more people use these devices? A couple of reasons: 1. They don't know they exist because hearing healthcare providers don't tell people about these options. 2. they show when they are being used, and many people spend more energy trying to hide their hearing devices than actually trying to hear. 3. They cost money to purchase. Yes, they are add ons. People who sell hearing aids don't want to discuss these things because they are already trying to sell a product that is extremely expensive.
I have learned more about these types of devices from other hard of hearing people than from all the professionals I've seen in the 50 years that I've had hearing loss.
How many people in this discussion are using assistive technology that goes beyond your hearing aids?
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I have 5 year old Phonaks that do not have bluetooth so I bought the Compilot II for hearing better on the phone...I love it! I can also use it for ZOOM meetings which works out well also. We also have installed a hearing loop in our church which also is very useful...it is just tough getting other people to buy into using it or they don't understand the technology. I tried the mic but did not find it that useful to me. I will be getting new hearing aids by the end of the year so will make sure I get the bluetooth technology along with the T-coil. Anything else you suggest while I am upgrading?
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True and interesting...I noticed while trying to hear something on tv(bad sound on something from England) I cupped my hand against my better ear and towards the tv and I could hear VERY clearly and was able to even turn the sound down!.I did this off and on...and it worked every time. Maybe a good old fashioned Ear Horn is all I need? Anyways am going to experiment more. I live out in the country so accessing city stores etc is sometimes hard and not in my budet. Will be great if I can figure out a do-it-youself thing.