Hello, @rockwood I'm sorry to read of your husband's diagnosis, but say welcome to Mayo Connect. You are right in that none of us know what the future holds for us, especially when it comes to our health and the health of our loved ones. It is good to have you here in the discussions about caregiving. For me, my years as a caregiver is what drove me to find Connect. It's a challenging journey and while each caregiver, patient, and their journeys are unique, I think you might find some good ideas, suggestions, etc. here from your fellow caregivers across the country and globe.

You specifically mentioned your doubt about your energy for this and I well remember all the doubts I had about whether or not I could even be a caregiver and over the years if I'd have the energy to carry on with the daily demands of caregiving. All I can say is all each of us can do as a caregiver is our best at the time. There are no superheroes in caregiving. Superman and Wonder Woman only exist in the comics.

Please let me know if you have any questions.

Strength, Courage, & Peace