Thank you both for your support and encouragement. Some days are incredibly hard and you helped me get through one of them. Although each situation is unique, I know my situation is not isolated. Ginger - - it was and is helpful to know how you got through. I am thankful to hear the words from someone who actually walked through this and came out the other side. I am fortunate I have family supporting me through this incredibly difficult stance and decision making process. Ultimately, I know my husband's actions (or lack their of) will determine the outcome but in the meantime each 'no' I have to say crushes the shards of my heart even more. Thank you again for your support to me and others in this process.