Hi Amanda, and thanks for answering! I think she is sometimes interested but it doesn't feel real sometimes, as if she is trying to keep me happy but basically is turned off intimacy in general because she thinks I will want it to escalate into something. To be honest, I think this condition has put her off any kind of amorous feeling although we still exchange our love for each other verbally. But other times she is cold and angry towards me, and that makes me the same to her. Our mutual massages are nice, but it's always me that suggests and initiates them, and again feels like she is ambivalent.
I feel terrible that she is going through this, but sometimes her unkindness gets to me. I guess we all want to be loved somehow!