I think loneliness and isolation are sometimes the biggest enemy. During Covid there were many caregiver groups that chose to meet virtually - on Zoom. Is there a caregiver group near you, or affiliated with your church if you belong to one? It might be a place to find others who are sharing your journey.

Another thing to remember is that sometimes, what he needs most is not for you to do something, but just to know you are there and you care. Also, you can be his advocate with his health care team, which he probably doesn't have the energy to do. Do you have any home health care or respite care set up? If not, that is something to seek out to keep you healthy in mind and body as you travel this road.

Also, the door is always open here on Connect. I might not answer right away, because sometimes I'm out in the yard, but there are plenty of caring folks here.

Sue

@afotoart i can only imagine how difficult this time is for you. But you can make it a very constructive time. Find old photo albums of trips, children, good times, and have them available. You can help him relive all the memories! Also, make your house safe to prevent falls. Do you have an Area Agency on Aging in your town? They most probably have lots of information and referrals.

Now, don’t do everything today! Start with making a list of what you’d like to do and just slowly work on it. And DON’T forget to take care of yourself!

You could also enlist some of his friends who could come visit and talk of old times. And there may be dementia support groups in the area. And don’t forget US—were here to help and support you