What's outside of your picture window today?

Posted by John, Volunteer Mentor @johnbishop, Nov 25, 2020

As we get ready for the real winter to show up and COVID-19 still playing a major part in our lives I like to spend moments of my day de-stressing about what's going on in the world today. All I have to do is look out the window and observe some of natures beautiful creatures, how they interact and ponder how small it makes my troubles seem. Sometimes I may even get the opportunity to take a photo or two. How about you? Anything going on outside of your window(s) that you want to share?

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@artist01

@loribmt, @jakedduck1 , @ess77, @sueinmn and all. Well, I'm in the hospital AGAIN, guys. This time, I've had a heart attack. I think I've posted that news to Sue, (@sueinmn) this week but my brain fog with all these new meds has me wondering. Lori, I started a soulful message to you the other day, but thought better of it and deleted it! Didn't want to burden you with all this.
And Jake would give me heck again. Lol. I've got a beautiful hospital room with an ocean view this time. I'll try to send a picture or two. Hugs. Laur

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Wow! My last view from a hospital room was the A/C unit on the roof of the other wing.
That is what I call a healing view.
How are you doing today? I'vv been thinking of you.
Sue

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@loribmt

@artist01 Laurie!! What the heck. I’m away from my computer for a couple days and I see this news of a heart attack?? Oh my goodness, you have been through the wringer lately, my friend! I’m so sorry to hear of this latest development. Are you doing ok now? I need to catch up on the other comments…
Your view is absolutely gorgeous, Laurie! I’m beginning to see why you like visiting the hospital so much! 😜 Kidding.

Please, feel free to write to me anytime! I never feel burdened with helping to lighten someone else’s load. It’s who I am. 😊 haha and Jake will always give you a rough time, it’s who HE is! 😅

I’ll be back full-ish time Wednesday. Tomorrow is travel day back from Mayo Rochester. This day full of procedures and such has kicked my bum 4 ways~up, down, hard and repeatedly. First time the anesthesia made me nauseated all day. Finally got to nibble some toast for dinner. Not the night out dining that we’d planned!! Anyway, early to bed for me. But I saw this message and had to reply!
You take care, dear heart!! I’ll talk to you soon! Sending love, Lori

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Hello, Lori, Somehow I missed your trip to Rochester. Is this a regular type visit? Sounds like you're having procedures and action taken. I like that you're getting the caring, watchful eyes of the Rochester staff, but don't want to see you experiencing 'issues'. Only issues allowed are which outfit to wear to make your husband's eyes light up. What a blessing for you, Lori, to have him.....I think! (as you all say, 'Just kidding' or LOL.)

Be your positive self, my friend. I'm learning from you and others who've worked so hard to get all this stuff under control in your heads. In fact, I just hung up from chatting with my son. He called and sounded so good, much less stressed. This last hospital visit was tough and frightening, but it helped him I think. His body was so far out of whack, the meds and constant fluids he got helped immensely. And, Lori, I just got a repeat call from him sounding quite stressed after getting a confusing message from a home health care person. It's that roller -coaster again. He gets himself in a good place mentally and physically, then a little something topples the hard work setting him back a bit. Like Laura and me and all of us, 2 steps forward, 3 steps back. Sometimes 4+ back. It's contagious, too! I'm now agitated after being so calm and pleased with his progress....Geez Louise! Time to reset my brain...

You do well, my friend. Get rest and be well. You're getting all tuned up....something we all need occasionally. Kinda need that now, so good for massage day. It's been soooo long since I had my regular massages. It's time.
Heading out later to Mayo for the first of many, and other goodies in that dept. I'm thrilled...a very good day for a very good thing to do for myself. Then, tomorrow I go to the Mayo Fibromyalgia Clinic for a 2 day educational experience. I'll finally get all the skinny on Fibro, the facts 'mam. just the facts' as the Dragnet Joe Friday used to say. Remember that show?

The firbro class is informative, learning what's now known and how to handle this encompassing illness. Interferes in every area of the body. 2 intense days, 8:30-4...6; apart, wearing masks all day, no eating in class...horrors! because they want masks up. But, lots of flexibility to get up and stand, or move which is so important for fibro folks. So, off we go on another adventure to Mayo Adventureland!

I'm not tripping. I'm tired for no sleep due to prednisone. Better last night, but still not settled. It'll take a few days to calm myself. I began yesterday to follow Sue's advice and took a quiet time -breather in the middle of the afternoon. Intentionally. I sat in the recliner, after having moved furniture Sunday to re-balance the den, had a cup of tea and a glass of iced greed tea, one of the goodies I give me every day, but so good on southern summer days. Put my feet up, head back, and enjoyed my bird and squirrel and lizard friends. Talk about calming. It was wonderful. I sat and smiled for over an hour, enjoying the antics. Rejuvenating. Thanks, Sue. That's part of a new afternoon schedule for me.

Enjoy your ride home and back to your sanctuary. You will replenish your body and spirit on your lake, forests and with your nature friends.
Be well, be blessed and don't be good.
Elizabeth

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Lori inspired me to take an early morning tour of my backyard.
This big bumblebee is feasting on bee balm.
Later the tiny bees will be all over the fragrant bugbane. My grandma's old milkcan.
And the peaceful pond.
Have a blessed day everyone.
Sue

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@ess77

Hello, Lori, Somehow I missed your trip to Rochester. Is this a regular type visit? Sounds like you're having procedures and action taken. I like that you're getting the caring, watchful eyes of the Rochester staff, but don't want to see you experiencing 'issues'. Only issues allowed are which outfit to wear to make your husband's eyes light up. What a blessing for you, Lori, to have him.....I think! (as you all say, 'Just kidding' or LOL.)

Be your positive self, my friend. I'm learning from you and others who've worked so hard to get all this stuff under control in your heads. In fact, I just hung up from chatting with my son. He called and sounded so good, much less stressed. This last hospital visit was tough and frightening, but it helped him I think. His body was so far out of whack, the meds and constant fluids he got helped immensely. And, Lori, I just got a repeat call from him sounding quite stressed after getting a confusing message from a home health care person. It's that roller -coaster again. He gets himself in a good place mentally and physically, then a little something topples the hard work setting him back a bit. Like Laura and me and all of us, 2 steps forward, 3 steps back. Sometimes 4+ back. It's contagious, too! I'm now agitated after being so calm and pleased with his progress....Geez Louise! Time to reset my brain...

You do well, my friend. Get rest and be well. You're getting all tuned up....something we all need occasionally. Kinda need that now, so good for massage day. It's been soooo long since I had my regular massages. It's time.
Heading out later to Mayo for the first of many, and other goodies in that dept. I'm thrilled...a very good day for a very good thing to do for myself. Then, tomorrow I go to the Mayo Fibromyalgia Clinic for a 2 day educational experience. I'll finally get all the skinny on Fibro, the facts 'mam. just the facts' as the Dragnet Joe Friday used to say. Remember that show?

The firbro class is informative, learning what's now known and how to handle this encompassing illness. Interferes in every area of the body. 2 intense days, 8:30-4...6; apart, wearing masks all day, no eating in class...horrors! because they want masks up. But, lots of flexibility to get up and stand, or move which is so important for fibro folks. So, off we go on another adventure to Mayo Adventureland!

I'm not tripping. I'm tired for no sleep due to prednisone. Better last night, but still not settled. It'll take a few days to calm myself. I began yesterday to follow Sue's advice and took a quiet time -breather in the middle of the afternoon. Intentionally. I sat in the recliner, after having moved furniture Sunday to re-balance the den, had a cup of tea and a glass of iced greed tea, one of the goodies I give me every day, but so good on southern summer days. Put my feet up, head back, and enjoyed my bird and squirrel and lizard friends. Talk about calming. It was wonderful. I sat and smiled for over an hour, enjoying the antics. Rejuvenating. Thanks, Sue. That's part of a new afternoon schedule for me.

Enjoy your ride home and back to your sanctuary. You will replenish your body and spirit on your lake, forests and with your nature friends.
Be well, be blessed and don't be good.
Elizabeth

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Elizabeth- I'm so glad that helped you.
Next, let's figure out a strategy for re-entering you after stressful calls from your son, so all your healing strategies can succeed. What makes you feel the most peaceful?
Sue

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@jakedduck1

@artist01
Boy oh boy oh boy, what some people won't do to get out of going to a birthday party. Don't you think a heart attack is a bit drastic? Okay, you don't have to come. Your off the hook so don't be having a stroke.
I want a stop put to all these hospitalizations, enough
already!!!
Get well & thats an order!!!
Jake

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@jakedduck. Jakie, Jakie, Jakie! Do you really think I would pull a low trick like that just to get out of your birthday party? Not on your life, boy! I'll be there. Promise. I'm doing well today. They've moved me out of my beautiful ocean view room into a double with an ancient noncommunicative old lady but at least I'm closest to the washroom. Crucial!!

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Hello, Everyone. I need some input from my feathered friend watchers.....I have a couple of mourning doves who've been with me for a long time, or members of the family at least. Then, a few months ago, watched as a third interloper arrived, we had a three-some. With some in-fighting, I think. I haven't seen the doves for a bit, until yesterday afternoon during the break. Only one dove came for a visit. I think that's the first time I've ever had a single dove, always in pairs.

Anyone up on this part of dove behavior? It made me sad to see a loner. I began to imagine bad possibilities as in pain and harm to the others, whatever. I'm going to research these sweet little loves. It may be they're home cooing or whatever. Hope so...Sounds like fun!

Thank you all for being yourselves. Ain't life grand????
Blessings to you.
Elizabeth

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Well, my one lonely mourning dove was back this evening, very much alone and looking forlorn. It really made me sad to see him/her sitting up on top of my fence staring out into the woods behind my condo. I felt sorry for the little thing. I hope he hasn't lost his family, although I'm afraid that is what happened, as it's been a while since seeing the group. We do have some neighbors who let their cats outside and we have a couple of ferrel cats dropped off by folks as kittens. This might sound strange, but I'm asking you all to please pray for these doves. I'd hate to think they got killed somehow and we've lost that treasure. I miss them, their soft cooing and kissing and sitting on top of the fence watching over the place.

Wed and Thurs I'll be at Mayo all day, from 8:30 AM to 4:30 PM!!!!!!!!!!!!! That's a long day for me right now especially, since only out of hospital 7 days. But, they'll be flexible and allow us to move around some, stand in the corner if need be which will feel quite appropriate. I can't wait to learn everything I can about this illness.

Life is good, if nuts at times. Blessings to every single one of you.
Elizabeth

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@ess77

Hello, Lori, Somehow I missed your trip to Rochester. Is this a regular type visit? Sounds like you're having procedures and action taken. I like that you're getting the caring, watchful eyes of the Rochester staff, but don't want to see you experiencing 'issues'. Only issues allowed are which outfit to wear to make your husband's eyes light up. What a blessing for you, Lori, to have him.....I think! (as you all say, 'Just kidding' or LOL.)

Be your positive self, my friend. I'm learning from you and others who've worked so hard to get all this stuff under control in your heads. In fact, I just hung up from chatting with my son. He called and sounded so good, much less stressed. This last hospital visit was tough and frightening, but it helped him I think. His body was so far out of whack, the meds and constant fluids he got helped immensely. And, Lori, I just got a repeat call from him sounding quite stressed after getting a confusing message from a home health care person. It's that roller -coaster again. He gets himself in a good place mentally and physically, then a little something topples the hard work setting him back a bit. Like Laura and me and all of us, 2 steps forward, 3 steps back. Sometimes 4+ back. It's contagious, too! I'm now agitated after being so calm and pleased with his progress....Geez Louise! Time to reset my brain...

You do well, my friend. Get rest and be well. You're getting all tuned up....something we all need occasionally. Kinda need that now, so good for massage day. It's been soooo long since I had my regular massages. It's time.
Heading out later to Mayo for the first of many, and other goodies in that dept. I'm thrilled...a very good day for a very good thing to do for myself. Then, tomorrow I go to the Mayo Fibromyalgia Clinic for a 2 day educational experience. I'll finally get all the skinny on Fibro, the facts 'mam. just the facts' as the Dragnet Joe Friday used to say. Remember that show?

The firbro class is informative, learning what's now known and how to handle this encompassing illness. Interferes in every area of the body. 2 intense days, 8:30-4...6; apart, wearing masks all day, no eating in class...horrors! because they want masks up. But, lots of flexibility to get up and stand, or move which is so important for fibro folks. So, off we go on another adventure to Mayo Adventureland!

I'm not tripping. I'm tired for no sleep due to prednisone. Better last night, but still not settled. It'll take a few days to calm myself. I began yesterday to follow Sue's advice and took a quiet time -breather in the middle of the afternoon. Intentionally. I sat in the recliner, after having moved furniture Sunday to re-balance the den, had a cup of tea and a glass of iced greed tea, one of the goodies I give me every day, but so good on southern summer days. Put my feet up, head back, and enjoyed my bird and squirrel and lizard friends. Talk about calming. It was wonderful. I sat and smiled for over an hour, enjoying the antics. Rejuvenating. Thanks, Sue. That's part of a new afternoon schedule for me.

Enjoy your ride home and back to your sanctuary. You will replenish your body and spirit on your lake, forests and with your nature friends.
Be well, be blessed and don't be good.
Elizabeth

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@ess77 You’re remarkable…you and Laurie, @artist01 Both of you dear ladies have plates full of trouble and yet you think about all of us in Connect too! We’re all pretty blessed to have you too!
Thank you for the good wishes. I’m fine. The visit to Mayo was for the 2nd re-birth day of my bone marrow transplant. Had a bone marrow biopsy to make sure I’m still 100 %donor DNA and zero %me! We don’t want any of my old cells remaining. They were a troubled lot. Haha.
A zillion vials of blood to check everything! And for the 1st time in 2.5 years all but one number is right down the middle! Happy dance!!
But with that comes a new reduction in my meds which is where I derailed 1.5 years ago so it’s with trepidation that I start a taper off an immunosuppressant.
I will be ecstatic if all goes well because then I can also halt all the antibiotics(penicillin and bactrim), anti fungal, antiviral and 3 other meds. Also had 6 more vaccines today, bringing me to a grand total of 25 vaccinations since last October! I’m almost an adult!! Giggle…only one more series to go in a couple months!! Whoot! I am wiped out though. Side effects from yesterday which is rare! Had to postpone the shots until this morning at 8. The nurse who was to give me the vaccinations took one look at me and said, “Honey there is no way we’re doing this today…” and handed me an emesis bucket!! Cuz I was in a tailspin this time from the anesthesia of the procedure in the appointment before hers. When I’d gone to the clinic in the morning, I literally sprinted up the stairs. When I returned 3 hours later, I was in a wheel chair riding like a queen! Hahah Good thing my husband is still Mr Buff and can push that wheelchair with me in it!! He truly has been my rock through the past 2.5 years of illness and recovery…and the 47 years we’ve been married.

I was feeling so relieved and excited for you and Rob…and then gosh, not again!! But you know, Elizabeth he now has had some good moments and maybe they will grow in numbers with the steady care both you and he are getting. I know you’re able to cope so well with setbacks and moving forward again. But it gets exhausting and takes a toll.
I read about your diagnosis and I so hope the new treatment helps you without side effects.
Mm I also love iced green tea. Been treating myself to Matcha tea and also, a blend of lavender and blueberry iced!! It’s so refreshing and relaxing!

Ok I’m going to post a couple of photos of Mayo Rochester for those not familiar with the campus. It’s so beautiful.
Me, 2 years ago wandering the empty foyers at night. It was a victory lap as I pushed my wheelchair back to the clinic with my husband and ran up the flight of stairs by the Chihuly glass ‘singing’ the theme from Rocky
The maintenance guy was laughing with us! Pretty cool.

There is a foyer with Chihuly glasswork suspended from the ceiling. The halls are marble and so gorgeous. It’s my home away from home.

A pic of the Subway that connects most of the hotels and other businesses to the Clinic.

The garden in front of Mayo with statues of the Mayo Brothers.

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@ess77

Well, my one lonely mourning dove was back this evening, very much alone and looking forlorn. It really made me sad to see him/her sitting up on top of my fence staring out into the woods behind my condo. I felt sorry for the little thing. I hope he hasn't lost his family, although I'm afraid that is what happened, as it's been a while since seeing the group. We do have some neighbors who let their cats outside and we have a couple of ferrel cats dropped off by folks as kittens. This might sound strange, but I'm asking you all to please pray for these doves. I'd hate to think they got killed somehow and we've lost that treasure. I miss them, their soft cooing and kissing and sitting on top of the fence watching over the place.

Wed and Thurs I'll be at Mayo all day, from 8:30 AM to 4:30 PM!!!!!!!!!!!!! That's a long day for me right now especially, since only out of hospital 7 days. But, they'll be flexible and allow us to move around some, stand in the corner if need be which will feel quite appropriate. I can't wait to learn everything I can about this illness.

Life is good, if nuts at times. Blessings to every single one of you.
Elizabeth

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@ess77 Two long days ahead of you at Mayo but I think you’ll learn so much useful information. The staff at every Mayo is always so mindful of patient needs, I’m sure you’ll get breaks and be treated like a queen. Good luck to you!!

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@sueinmn

Lori inspired me to take an early morning tour of my backyard.
This big bumblebee is feasting on bee balm.
Later the tiny bees will be all over the fragrant bugbane. My grandma's old milkcan.
And the peaceful pond.
Have a blessed day everyone.
Sue

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Sue!! Wow! Your garden is stunning. I love the pond and all the gorgeous flowers. I can see why you’re outside all the time enjoying this before winter covers all your friends in a white blanket again. The old milk can…brings back a lot of memories of childhood on my grannie’s farm! Wonderful photos! Thank you for sharing your morning tour!

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