A Very good response LB...my husband was extremely ill, for 15 year's of our 25 years ❤ together. He did not make it through Heart Transplant Surgery, at age 64! He was the Best Man Ever in my life! Much more in life than sex! Sex does not make a marriage, and it NEVER did! BE thankful it's not you, sick! You are Very Blessed if you have your health! 15 years later I still wish my sick husband was here, I'd give anything to see him and hear his laugh!