My tremor sometimes rouses the attention of people wherever I am, and some people find it necessary to make a comment, like "are you alright?" or "do you need help bringing the groceries to the car?" I resent these comments, considering I am an extremely physically fit individual who can hike 10 miles, lift heavy weights and practice difficult yoga, and the comments are made by people who are probably not as fit as I am. I regard this as an intrusion and wish it would not happen. What should my response be? I sometimes say "why are you asking?" but they never come out with "because you are shaking", or I say "I'm fine, and how are you?" although I really would like to say "that's not none of your business" or something to that effect. I'm sure I am not alone!