I have none of the normal "causes" for this, it is a mystery. It is hard to find any information that is not "doctor targeted". Even the doctors don't talk about the "journey". You are either ready for surgery or not ready. The part that we all deal with in between finding out and getting it fixed seems to be ignored as if it is not important. I don't know about the rest of you but it is important enough to be on my mind a lot. It is nice to have this connection to people that have the same thing on their mind and understand that it is a big deal.