@ske22 Oh, how frustrating for you! I went thru a lot of similar experiences: pats on the head, don’t worry, you’ll be fine, quit watching politics on TV. Too much. Are your experiences at the local level, or are you going to a university medical center? Large medical centers are best. I finally ended up at the University of Colorado med center and have gotten good care.
I have included the link to a discussion I start a while ago. It is information from the American Autoimmune Related Diseases Association, and talks about getting a proper diagnosis.
https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/tips-for-getting-a-proper-diagnosis-of-an-autoimmune-disease/
Will you keep us informed so we can continue helping you?