...not that it matters/is of importance but i am the opposite and when ill physically and it affect me mentally i have crying bouts and my whole body heaves its so deep.... well i guess a "happy medium" is best - I dont think I even saw my husband cry in 40 years but when we got news his brother had died, at midnight, when i made his bed the next day his pillow was wet.... the body/mind are strange eh? June