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"Quality of life"......a gift that just keeps on giving.

Aging Well | Last Active: Feb 26, 2021 | Replies (242)

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@nla4625

@1nan. Your comment about not making assumptions new symptoms are due to old age or extensions of the same health problems we're dealing and bringing them to the attention of our health providers right away is one of the most important things I've learned the hard way recently. I assumed my shortness of breath after going up a flight of stairs and general fatigue were being caused by my being overweight, old, and out of shape. It took a trip to the emergency room when I thought I was having a heart attack and numerous tests to determine I had a paralyzed diaphragm that wasn't related to my age, weight, or being out of shape causing these symptoms, as well as periodic chest pain. I can be assertive and be my own advocate; but at the same time it's hard to change my perspective from not wanting to complain and bother people to making them aware what's going on and asking them to address the issue. A stereo type image I have in my mind that I hope is outdated and not correct is that many medical professionals don't take "complaints" from senior citizens seriously. What do other people think about this? Nancy PS I too love fabrics and had an amazing collection from the 55 countries around the world I visited. Sadly, I gave them away when I downsized; but I gave them to quilters who in turn made beautiful quilts which they then gave away. I know the recipients of all the beautiful items many on this thread have made and given away are really appreciate of your talent and generosity.

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Hi, 1nan, I found myself nodding in agreement as I read your post. It took me a long time to org. my thoughts before seeing doctors and even longer to start jotting down questions or issues. Longer still was to reduce to 2-3 questions/issues in writing to take along with me. If more than that, the docs tended to brush off the last few and I'd come away feeling disappointed. Decided that it had more to do with their pressures and time constraints per patient than disregarding me because I am a senior.

That you've traveled extensively and collected fabrics from such diverse countries had to bring great joy. Must have been difficult sharing them with other quilters when you downsized but oh my goodness the added pleasure you spread by doing so.