People with hearing loss who have been successful in their careers
Hi -is there someone I can talk to, or read about, who's been successful in their career? I've struggled with hearing loss, and its effects, for 30+ years and because of these experiences, I've come to believe that I would not be able to navigate an employment setting in a way that would be satisfactory to any employer. I also have come to believe that advancement in any career is next to impossible for me to achieve. I've been significantly under-employed my entire life. I'm now receiving vocational rehabilitation services and I'm wondering if I've sold myself short all of these years. I think that if I were to conduct a little research into how other people have managed well in their careers, without being able to hear clearly the people around them, then I might believe that this could be possible for me, too.
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I think I've done very well in incorporating stress management techniques into my daily life in order to offset the difficulties that living with hearing loss has posed for me but I'm also forever looking to improve. Thank you for the reminders. 😊
Stress management techniques matter. So glad you're doing well with that. Until I learned about SHHH/HLAA back in the early 80s my stress level was extremely high. I had a variety of health issues due to high stress. My doctors had no clue what was wrong with me. They insisted it was all 'in my head'. Even though they knew I had sensorineural hearing loss, they did not relate it to my health.
It helped so very much to learn I wasn't alone with the hearing issues I struggled with; social and professional. I had no idea there were ways to bring sound direct to my hearing aids. Even though they were rather primitive then, they helped. Other people with hearing loss introduced me to them. Once I learned coping strategies and tried some of the very basic assistive listening devices that were available back then I realized I did not have to spend the rest of my life in a deaf world.
Hopping on the bandwagon to educate and advocate for better services and products gave me a mission and a purpose. It has now been over 35 years of involvement. Seeing the changes in the industry, watching the success of cochlear implants and having hope for the possibility of a cure for some types of hearing loss helped relieve the stress I had been feeling. Sure, I still experience stress due to hearing loss and hearing fatigue, but I know it's OK to take a break from it and I do.
I am so thankful for the advocates who have gotten hearing loops installed in performing arts centers, churches, meeting rooms, etc.; for those who worked to develop closed captioning, and other technologies that have created communication access. Those advocates, for the most part, have been hard of hearing people themselves. All of these things that keep us in the hearing mainstream are stress relievers.
I use Jabra Move Wireless Bluetooth Headphones and I haven't told my ear doctor because I'm not sure how that falls into his scope of practice in working with me. I do believe that my audiologist is aware, however, but I could mention it to her again. My hearing loss stems from my hearing bones not working all that well. I think that I might have this area covered (as in technological options) because I have a hearing consultant who I believe is ready to help me once I have need for accommodations in a workplace setting. My main interest is in learning about the varying ways people have managed to function well, and advance, in their careers when they could not hear or understand what was being said around them. These stories have been helpful for me to read. 😊
Also, I think that there is an unanswered question from you somewhere in this forum; however, I'm still trying to find a way to use this forum in a way that makes any sense to me. I certainly haven't found it easy to use so far. I just cannot find questions and replies without taking too much time out of my day to search around for each one. I'd like to honor your question though so I'll pop back in again later and do another search for it. Thanks again, Ken!
@jaema I am glad to hear? (see!) your mention of the challenges you have encountered in making use of the Forum which I too experience. It would be great to have a "how to" list to easily consult when trying to figure out how to effectively and efficiently use the Forum!
Yes, as it turns out, the format on here is not user-friendly at all. It really seems out-dated to me. There is a notification button in the top bar of the page that might help users to respond to each reply and comment as they come in but I came into this forum with the expectation that it would be easy to spot the newer replies and comments that have come in and to understand to which conversation they were pertaining. Unfortunately, the order of these replies and comments are, literally, just presented in the order they came in...sooo it's one long list of jumbled replies and comments. 🤣 Anyway, I can see that an "explainer video" might come in handy.
I get their daily update, look at hearing loss, and the most recent and the # days since last post are there, I usually only look at past 2 days or so
Hah. I found the missing reply! 😊 I had actually been replying to @faithwalker007 above, not to you. However, I do appreciate your insights about looking for a career field in which the skills I have to offer would easily be recognized by others. I think I found networking, as a way to get ahead/advance, to be the most challenging in my past. I could do my job adequately enough but I couldn't quite navigate my social or work environment well enough to go any further. Problems certainly do arise when attempting to interact with others. It gets quite complicated.
"We can do so much more for ourselves and others when we find ways to help ourselves." It has been quite the journey for me to get to this point but I agree that this is helpful. 😊
I do have access to a hearing consultant who could help me navigate my next work environment successfully. I have conductive hearing loss, and while I have experienced some decline in the functioning of my cochlear, my cochlear is mostly normal. Hearing aids just don't cut it for me as they manage the sound too much. My headphones have been like a dream for me while I've participated in Zoom calls throughout this pandemic. While I'm highly resistant to wearing my hearing aids, and thus by extension using assistive technology that requires the use of my hearing aids to operate, perhaps I could use over-the-ear headphones instead. I've seen these in use by people who consider themselves to be D/deaf. Perhaps this will be an area to explore in my near fuutre. 😊 I have attended a few HLAA webinars and I'll take a deeper dive into those available on their YouTube channel as well. Thanks for the reply and the advice! I really appreciate your time and attention to my question.
I absolutely resonate with your experiences with having a high level of stress, having it affect you in myriad and insidious ways, and not being able to really pinpoint what exactly is wrong. I was very confused for many many years and have only recently started to dig into my hearing loss issues. I'm starting to really understand now the significant and impactful effects my hearing loss is/was having on me. Fortunately, I now have access to a mental health therapist who specializes in working with people with hearing loss issues and vocational rehabilitative services for my (hearing loss) disability and I'm really working hard to get through some of these old belief systems. You seem to have a passion to help others with similar issues and I appreciate the time and effort that you seem to be putting into this forum. Thank you, @julieo4!