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DiscussionFalling out of bed in a memory care facility
Caregivers: Dementia | Last Active: Oct 3, 2020 | Replies (17)Comment receiving replies
Replies to "Hi FWW. My name is Virginia Naeve and I try to be helpful on these kinds..."
My Mom was in memory care and broke her hip getting out of bed. It was the second occurrence of breaking a hip about a year apart. She died in tremendous pain after a few days from the second fall. I was incensed and couldn’t believe they could allow it to happen a second time. Why do we allow these politicians to make laws for something that should be a family decision, especially for someone that can be a danger to themselves? What’s worse, possibly creating some anxiety for the loved one, or having them fall and break bones and die?
Seems like a lot of states have this inhumane law that you can constrain someone. Very sad.
Hi Virginia. Thanks for the idea. I've looked at it and I think it would work well for me if Judy was still at home. But I think the facility director would consider it a restraint. At home I put a simple chair with it's back up by the bed edge near her elbow/waist area and the director said that was a restraint. She should call me later today so maybe we can work out some other ideas.
Like you did, we have one side of the bed next to the wall. You also had another idea with soft blankets on the floor. That's something like my daughter's idea of a mattress in the "landing area". Right now I'm thinking that if the facility can set up a motion detection system to alert the staff to Judy's movements, even if she moves out of bed they will quickly find her on the mattress.
Thanks again for your thoughtful response.