Hi @lydiaburger, Welcome to Connect. You mentioned having the same problems sleeping as @0616. Have either of you been tested for sleep apnea? It can be the reason for no energy or fatigue during the day. Here is a little information on sleep apnea.

Do I have sleep apnea?: https://www.mayoclinichealthsystem.org/hometown-health/speaking-of-health/do-i-have-sleep-apnea
Mayo Clinic Q and A: Diagnosing sleep apnea: https://newsnetwork.mayoclinic.org/discussion/mayo-clinic-q-and-a-diagnosing-sleep-apnea/