@johnbishop, @gingerw, @merpreb, Thank you for your immediate, comforting and helpful responses. I remember your writing, John, of the loss of your dear friend and neighbor and could not agree more with what @byrnesies wrote about going forward remembering the very special times we shared because of what you responded. Thank you, both.

Ginger, you are such a meaningful support and yes, I've been having private conversations with my friend throughout this vacillating emotional ordeal and I appreciate the reminder to continue, not only about issues dealing with her situation but also the anger, disbelief, frustration, sadness, isolation, pain, fears for our democracy and the far reaching impact the pandemic is having and will continue to have on our children, grands and communities. We shared so many similar beliefs and views that she was always the one first chosen when needing to vent or talk.

Merry, Thank you, especially, for the cyber hug which comes at a time when physical hugs are lacking. Like you and probably most others of a certain age, I've experienced immediate family's and other close friends' deaths as well as other significant losses over the years. Of course, each situation was different and I reacted and responded differently to each. The first friend I made when moving here in 1974 continued to be a very special and extraordinary friend until her sudden and unexpected death in her sleep the week before X-mas. We had scheduled our annual celebration lunch for the following Monday. The shock was indescribable. This one was long predicted and the daily changes that occurred made most of the focus on the newest situation.

The funeral plans have just been finalized and my order for catering the afterward luncheon for attendees has been placed. The daughter's decision for a chapel service means I and some others who also have serious health issues will not be attending. My friend was a favorite and long tenured educator who will missed and remembered fondly by those who knew and valued her contributions to their lives.

Thank you for the Mayo Connect opportunity to share and receive support from this awesome group of participants. Members have made each day over the past year so much easier for me. Sincerely, Alice