Speaking from a 59 yo white male who is single with no kids I'm amazed at the question. I'm not saying it's bad or anything wrong but I can go just about anywhere and meet people I personally like to know them before I will date them so you say why are you single then and honestly there are 2 good reasons to start with 1 is confidence I dont have all the cheezy lines memorized like I see at the supermarkets I just have to laugh at some of them but I know or been told confidence is a big factor. 2nd with my medical condition I dont have alot of money so if a woman is looking for a man to support her and take care of her I'm not the best person but if your looking to go for a walk or hike or bike or dancing art festivals when they start up I'll be all in for that. I love mexico I will most likely die in puerto vallarta which is were I love going but I dont stay in 5 star hotels I'm a person who likes to stay where locals live and some women I know would not like accommodations that I stay in. I dont drive the nicest car most likely worst car on block not the nicest home in the area but its mine and alot of people men and women have to keep up with the Jones. So how do you meet people where ever you are at my advice is to smile say hi introduce your self and see how it goes. That works everywhere and dont be mad if the other person isn't open to a conversation it's their loss not yours. I could give you more examples but I've rambled on long enough good luck in the search stay positive do the things you enjoy doing and be open to meeting people they are all around you have a blessed day dave