@rickvert May I add my welcome to Mayo Connect, also. I don't know how far away you may be from a Mayo Clinic campus, but is there any way that you could consider having a team there review your case? There are campuses at Rochester [Minnesota] , Scottsdale [Arizona], and Jacksonville [Florida]. Especially in light of the fact that your children are exhibiting some of the same symptoms that you also have, there may be something genetically going on. Also we can't discount the possibility of an environmental issue causing some of these things! An infectious disease Dr may be of help. Getting to the root of extreme fatigue can be difficult at best, so many variables to sort out. I look forward to hearing more about the outcomes of appointments.
Ginger