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Dear Robyn. Oh what a wonderful brother and then to lose him. Keep him in your heart. I lost my first husband just after 11 days of being married. A good friend was killed with him too. I turned to alcohol and hated God, but I'm back with God now and can't drink because I'm on medications that won't let me drink. I do have a glass of wine every once in awhile, but since they started me on Tymlos, that will increase my bone mass I cannot drink at all. Be sad sometimes, but put your brother in your heart and pray a prayer.
How did he die? Have you tried to a couselor? They really helped me when my mom killed herself and my husband and friend died. So try counseling if you haven't done it yet. Love to you and my prayers are with you.
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They also have grief meetings at some churches. I know it has really helped me. So sorry for your loss. It will get better. I still have good days and bad days, some times it is just moment by moment. Everyone tells me that it will be a new normal. All I know is that with God by my side and in my heart anything is possible. I have wonderful friends and family that encourage me to stay in school and now may 14th will be my last day and I will graduate from high school after being out of school for 38 years. I know when my husband of 36 and 1/2 years I thought my life was over. But now i am bettering myself. And going to try and become a respiratory therapist. To help people with the things that took my uncle my mom my dad and my husband. I hope and pray this helps a little at least. I pray for comfort and peace for you.