@bmwvent2020 Welcome to Mayo Connect, an online community that reaches more than 90,000 members with a mission to serve as a connection between patients, caregivers, and family members and the information needed to help them learn about their health issues so that they can make the best decisions for themselves as well as sharing with others. In this case, you are not the only folks who have had this experience. The question becomes, did they or didn't they have the COVID-19 virus? And if they did, can they help with the development of medications for others because their bodies created antibodies.

Mayo Clinic has a news network that releases press information and developed stories about frequently asked questions. Here is the news network response to your question about antibodies.
https://newsnetwork.mayoclinic.org/discussion/mayo-clinic-expert-answers-questions-about-antibody-testing-for-covid-19/
I hope that both of you are feeling well and have recovered enough energy and stamina to be able to ride this out. When you do go for the antibody test will you come back and share the experience with Connect. That will ensure that more folks will be informed and encouraged to participate.

May you be safe and protected.
Chris