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Husband diagnosed with RA

Autoimmune Diseases | Last Active: Feb 22, 2023 | Replies (24)

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@virgo1952

Hi Colleen. Thank you for reaching out asking about my husband and how it has changed my/our life. Early days for him. Fifth week of medication ( takes once a week) Our daily activities have also been changed due to the virus, so some of this is driven by that. Just an example, I walk everyday and he has found it’s to hard on him. He now bikes beside me most days going around our lake and through the neighborhoods. Hot baths are on the menu and he uses those for relief. (Still at times relies on dr prescribed medication) He stretches in bed before getting up, so I will go in and make our morning coffee (I make better coffee anyway, our secret!). We still plan to fly to Sun City, AZ once the travel band is lifted. I rented a home that provides a golf cart and will rent bikes for us to use so it is easier for him. That’s new for us. The not being able to walk long distances. But, a golf cart and bikes are doable. I recently ordered a heating pad for him to use while sitting. He gets up frequently and will walk around so he doesn’t become stiff and painful. ( I read on the treadmill so much that now just sitting reading seems weird) So we are made for each other😊. I think we’ve both had things happen, so I guess we just will do and figure it out along the way. My thinking is usually pretty positive. This is his second auto-immune disease; and I’m just focused on educating he and I to manage his RA. It will be his responsible to do what’s best for him. I will be there to support that.

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how was your husband diagnosed with RA? I was first diagnosed with it 31 years ago. The bloodwork did not show evidence from the rheumatoid factor. i had joint pain everywhere. the big thing that showed up in the bloodwork was the sed rate (ESR). my sed rate was well beyond 20 (o-20 is normal). Sed rate is a measure of inflamatory/pain one might feel. I was started on methrotrexate and my liver enzymes went off scale. In y worst days my sed rate was up to 150. i had gone thru all the biologic modifiers with somevery severe results. when i was on kineret, i had kidney failure and gained 43lbs and was hospitalized for 1 week till they could get my kidneys back to normal. when i was on humira i had torn retinas in both eyes (at different times), which had to be repaired. after that i told my PCP i will regulate my RA with prednisone and oxycodone . to day i stll do. I have had 2 knee replacements on my right knee,1 knee replacement on my left knee, i hip replacement on left hip. this is how i reacted to the RA drugs. My bodyis very sensitive to medicine.... i am 68 years old and will need my left hip and left knee replaced (16 yeas old and 17 years old respectively. i would be curious to know what medicine your husband is on. i aslo had dry corneas inboth eyes from the RA which requires Restasis in both eyes daily. RA is a progressive degenerative disease . I also have stenosis in the lower back (L4-L5), which requires cortinsone shots in the back. I have stenosis in my neck which can't be operated on. when a person is on pain relievers (NSAIDS), such as ibuprofen, remember to take it with food, or your stomach will get very bad. Being an RA patient i cannot donate blood, due to my still active RA. I cannot take any NSAIDS due to previous kidney failure and my stomach cannot stand theheartburn(even after stomach fundoplication). Being on prednisone and having RA means i am immuno supressed, which with this corvid-19 virus i have to wear a mask where i go... good luck and god bless to you and your husband and happy easter!..... kozlo52