@mayofeb2020 Thanks. Homes in NH are much less costly than in MA and many other areas. We really do need to downsize now but I still want room for when my son and daughter visit since they both live away, she in NYC and he in Denver. I can't keep up with cleaning this house though. We did have someone come in to clean every other week but my husband is not OK with that at all.

People having parties are crazy. Your son is considerate to be so cautious. It's such a difficult and miserable situation. I really feel bad for people who live alone, that must be even worse, although I am the type who could probably do it very happily -- no having to cook regular meals!
JK