@jolinda the thing is though, I could not be snitty with my son, he just cares so much and worries about us. I know his advice is out of love. He is extremely conscious of our ages and that we have both have had serious issues. He is grateful that we are here and he would like us to be here for a long time. I quote Steven Wright to him -- "I'm going to live forever; so far, so good". 😉
JK