Hello @purple6942,

I really can't answer your medical questions about the brain bleed, etc. You say that they are only providing comfort care for him now. Have you asked if he is a candidate for life-saving measures? It could be that because of other health issues that might not be possible. I don't recall you mentioning your dad's age, however, that is probably a consideration along with his history of dementia.

I do understand how difficult it is to let a parent go. My mother died on Thanksgiving Day after being in Hospice care for less than a week. It is traumatic as well as heartbreaking to say good-bye.

How do your other siblings feel about the decisions that are being made by the medical staff? Are they onboard with providing only comfort care now?