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Your gratitude changes because of organ failure...

Transplants | Last Active: Mar 2, 2020 | Replies (39)

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@jolinda As @marvinjsturing commented, I think it's not just us transplant recipients who feel hugely grateful and aware of how fortunate we are every day to still be here, but anyone who has had a life-threatening condition. I am just over 3 years post-transplant (liver). A dear friend survived breast cancer and I know she and I feel very similarly.
I look on every day as a gift, one more day to be here to love and enjoy my family. As @rosemarya commented I do find myself crying more easily, I am more emotional than I used to be.
I know my transplant changed my husband, son, daughter, and sister also. My husband and sister really thought they were going to lose me. They were all hugely grateful that I received the gift from a beautiful young woman who really should not have died. Thinking of her is one thing in particular that always brings tears to my eyes because her life was snuffed out due to hospital mishandling.
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@rosemarya @contentandwell I just had my one year anniversary Nov 28th and haven't written to my donor's family yet. My thoughts were that this would be a hard time for them right now before Christmas. My question is : is it too late to reach out to them and what on earth do I say? I don't know who they are or the circumstances that led to they're loved ones death. I am grateful but don't want to seem unfeeling to their loss and my gain. I've seen some guidelines on how to reach out but none of them seem to fit my situation. Please help me as I am feeling a tremendous amount of guilt over this.