My journey is so long and painful. Because my husband lives in a care facility I have the option to walk away from unhealthy conversations which is what I do. I had to learn how to converse with him to avoid his "bvFTD" rudeness which is simply taking the conversation in a more positive direction, which does not necessarily work. With his continued declined he has had a personality change and he is more pleasant these days. I'm thankful for that!