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Depression & Anxiety | Last Active: Nov 25, 2020 | Replies (135)

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@kimspr3

Hi, I can relate. I am Married to a Passive Aggressive "THEY ARE NEVER WRONG" He speaks for me, thinks for me, gas lighting, sneering, and that arrogant enjoyment when I become like a caged animal no where to go. His eyes, like "I gotcha" He is 2 different people. On a good day I asked him to sit with me, he did, I told him he makes me want to end it. He brings back memories of family doing the same to me PTSD. We made a pact [he said he knows what he does it just happens??? will he stop?? There has been no arguments at all, I feel calm better for pain. But, for how long? I said between loosing a very important thing in my life, my independence, and this non-stop pain. Please STOP! We went for Counseling, failed, she won't see him anymore. I hope your situation can be resolved, meet you half way and enjoy your lives as best you can.

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@mandrake70 I believe that the counselor will probably ask you to think or talk about the times your wife was right, even though she might not have been sensitive to how she proved the point. He/she will probably be working with both of you to rethink how to handle disagreements. Those things are hard for most of us, I'm sure, me included.

I don't know if you ever read the Bible, but if you do, I would recommend 1 Corinthians 13. There's a fairly new version of the Bible called The Message that puts the Bible in plain, current words. I can probably send it to you in a private message if you like.

Have a good night with pleasant dreams.

Jim