@maone Filing is different than ownership. Non of us can tell you what to do, as Colleen Young has pointed out. All I wanted to convey to you was to protect yourselves and seek out legal support for any future problems that might arise. Knowing that your son is a live is of course top priority. I am thrilled that this is so. I also have a son who I adore. And if he were to take off and not want to see me again I would think that he would not turn around and want to hurt me in anyway financially. But the future is so up in the air that many things can happen. Will you at least think about contacting a lawyer with your daughter-in-law to at least protect your grandson, especially when it comes to custody?