I have not even asked - I think its been that way most of his life - like i said he was the one who lived stayed and cared for his grandmother from the 1980's ttill she died in 2002 at age of 92 and in the package was the great-grandmother who lived to be 100+ - till her other daughter forced her into the local nursing home after a house fire like i said below what comes around goes around. I just try to do what is right - and hope one day some one will do same for me I am basically in same boat - my kids could care less but their dad handed them everything they wanted even if mom said no and when he died in 1990 the hand-outs ended... I am lucky i have just been able to keep the house which has been in the family since 1944 again thats probably been stupidity on my part - did tried to sell it couple time but did not go but I think that was thanks to the second family deterring the sell of it thought they would pick it up for back taxes... Life is a bowl of xcherries if you stay strong and do not buckle under 🙂