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About ready to scream, been bad month

Lung Cancer | Last Active: Sep 12, 2020 | Replies (54)

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@reibur1951

Are you joking the half sister can care a rats A$$ in ---- when her dad alive she told me there was more than i that could drive in the next breath she said we are going to North Carolina for two months... the older sister has had nothing to do with the family it was only her grandmother because even tho she worked the grandmother would dole out to her she also chose to live with her & her mother instead of her family when younger not sure exactly why but when of age abandoned helping them in their "old age" the grandmother lived to be 92 and the great-grandmother over 100 - the younger sister & her husband both works I remember standing in the kitchen and hearing her tell her mother her brothers are her "White slaves" and about the same time she took me for a ride alone to the local CVS and on the way there told me if anything happened to her parents I was to have them put into half-way houses... Sad thing it is their brother is the one who lived with the grandmother who helped take care of her and paid the mortgage that the grandmother took out on the farm ground for years to pay off her bills the the one sister - - The younger sister offered $20 for food when her dad was alive - only it took between $50-100 for as and food for each trip to Indy The brother-in-law did offer to go to see how to get there (he is and ex emt so really knows as EMT conferences were held at IU) but did a no-show that day with excuses later on 2 weeks down the road. The years I have been here I helped take care of the grandmother, friend - the parents who died June 28 & Dec 26 2018 the sister managed to get the younger brother commuted to a half way house that long story - but had mental problems due to sniffing & someone slipping some type of drug my understanding the straw that broke the camel's back for her was him sitting the north half of were iive on fire - she started the process and he done himself in by lying to the judge. The father & sis son my friend i am caring for did not want to go into nursing home so that is why the father h ad me file for adverse possession of proprieties to care for them and and protect me if any of them would of gotten they would be in nursing homes or half way houses and I out on the street - sad thing is the father did not live to see it happen and we had to sweat it out till the judge signed the papers a long wait Feb - - that has all went through Aug 8 2018 because of the adverse possession had to wait a year which was not told to us - all the sisters cared about was the property sad to say the one sister got the 5a. that her house sits on and I paid for the all survey, BZA (for variance) and Lawyer fees and gave her & her husband the 5a free and clear as a GIFT. July 2019 when I knew all was clear - 40a in sept 2019 (per the title company insurance) went to one of the brothers who had farmed it for over 35 years and I am on my way of restoring my house at Culver I still have 2 pieces of land to care for my friend with and I and am the bad ass - even when their dad was alive they did not come around it was i who took him to all his dr. appointments and blood transfusions and ER when he felt bad I guess I have "stupid sucker " written across my forehead but I also was through it with my husband so its "been there done that" I will survive and make it I can't even get help from them cleaning up this 5.3.a acres which was a half-a$$ junk yard for years the brother-in-law did till he found out he could not walk away with things - he took as couple of items of and sold to a antique shop brought back $20 and no receipt I tired to sell a car bought under my name no title for $30 and they called the person said I had not right i had the paid receipt with my name on it it was for parts for the windstar that had the broken axle - it had no motor no tires - and we used dor glass handles etc from it to keep the windstar running - I will SURVIVE and I will make it -

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@reibur1951- Woops, guess I asked the wrong questions. This might sound cliche but why not bring them to court and force the issue? You doing such a remarkable job for this man. He doesn't deserve a family like that. Do you stay at the hospital when he's being treated?

Hi @reibur1951, As Merry said you are doing some remarkable work for a person who needs a friend! It is so terrible that he can't depend on his family. Just wondering, does he resent his family for their lack of help and caring?