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Caregiving: I’m frustrated and exhausted.

Caregivers | Last Active: Mar 27, 2022 | Replies (223)

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@gingerw

@rmftucker My dad was a journaler. He started in high school, and continued until not long before his death at 96 yrs young, in 2012. But, I never saw what he wrote. He kept those volumes tucked away somewhere. His writings included Pearl Harbor invasion onboard the USS Enterprise, his work in the defense industry, caretaking of my mother during her 10 yrs of Alzheimer's and dementia. He said he would leave them to me but he never put it in writing. My older sister has those ratings and she refuses to share them with me, even for a look through. You are so lucky that your mother saved that for you.
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Ginger, so sad to read your dad never put the Journals in your name. This is so upsetting to me. Family can be very cruel, I know my brother was aided by his nasty cruel wife who called my mother "hey you!" I had to control myself from hitting her. My mother was shy, would never stand up to her.
I don't know what else they stole when my Father died. Does your sister have children you are close with? Do you think they would bring you the Journal so you could read it without anyone knowing? Just a thought. Joining hands